RHOA’s Drew Sidora Says Ex Ralph Is ‘Still’ Sleeping in the Basement

The Real Housewives of Atlanta star Drew Sidora has shared an update on her living situation with estranged husband Ralph Pittman.

“Man is still in the basement. Him downstairs, still there, and we’re still going through the process,” Sidora, 40, exclusively told Us Weekly at BravoCon 2025 on Friday, November 14. “I was actually supposed to be in my final trial today, so this has been a very difficult, challenging day, but the judge allowed me to be here because it was so important for me to show up and be here. So I’m grateful.”

Sidora added that her divorce proceedings with Pittman, 42, are “continued until January.”

“So 2026 will be a new day, new things, you know, we’ll see what happens,” she said.

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When asked if she had started packing up any of Pittman’s belongings, the Bravolebrity responded, “Listen, I’m not going to that basement. Y’all not gonna catch me packing up nothing, OK? I am on the upper level, and the kids are great.” (Sidora and Pittman share son Machai, 10, and daughter Aniya, 7. She is also a mom to son Josiah, 14, from a previous relationship.)

Pittman filed for divorce from Sidora after eight years of marriage in February 2023, citing in court documents at the time that “there is no chance or hope of reconciliation.”

A rep for Sidora subsequently told Us, “For three years, the Pittmans welcomed millions of viewers into their home as they struggled to repair their marriage. Despite undeniable differences, they agree that their marriage is irretrievably broken and are going their separate ways.”

Sidora revealed that they were still living under the same roof despite their divorce in a July 2024 interview with People, revealing that the decision was “court-ordered.”

“[The situation has] just been crazy,” she admitted. “It’d be much easier if we were able to move on separately; you know, out of sight, out of mind, with your own space and your own energy. But that’s clearly not in the cards. So sharing space has been a double whammy.”

She joked, “We’re kind of, like, the blueprint for a s***show divorce.”

During an interview with Bravo’s The Daily Dish in June, Sidora said that things between her and Pittman are “good” when she’s away from their house and traveling. However, the situation becomes “a little dysfunctional” when they’re both in the home at the same time.

“It’s uncomfortable when we do run into each other, or when we do try to come together and coparent. And then you’re being recorded, eating a piece of steak,” she said of their dynamic being filmed for RHOA. “It’s better when there’s space. And I think once we get our own separate living quarters, it’ll probably get easier.”

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Though Sidora said she “loves” her home, she might consider moving.

“Maybe I’ll just find me another house in the same community,” the Step Up actress said, explaining that she feels “safe” in her current neighborhood. “Because I could create some new energy in my own house, and have things the way that I like it.”

Sidora might even consider being neighbors with Pittman.

“I love my neighborhood, so I probably most definitely would have to stay in my neighborhood. So we would probably be neighbors,” she told the outlet. “For the sake of the kids, I think keeping as much normalcy for them, I think, is really important.”