Denise Richards has no issue spilling all the tea on her relationship with husband Aaron Phypers — especially when it comes to their sex life.
The actress has gotten real about everything from her hunt for a happy ending massage for her spouse (“I wanted him to have one”) to his sizable assets, and fans keep coming back for more. Phypers, however, might not be a huge fan of his wife’s “you ask, I’ll tell,” policy.
Phypers was absolutely cringing over Richards’ “big penis” comment during a 2019 episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
“Was Aaron embarrassed when I was saying that? Oh, f— yeah,” she said during the RHOBH after show at the time. “He was squeezing my knee under the table so hard [that] my kneecap almost popped off.”
Richards added, “I got an earful in the car on the way home, ‘cause of his mom. On the ride home … he was like, ‘What the f—? … Why would you say that? My mom can’t watch this show.’”
Keep scrolling for more of Richards’ candid moments about Phypers:
His Celebrity Hall Pass
When celebrity chef Brooke Williamson appeared on a March 2025 episode of Denise Richards and Her Wild Things, Richards declared that the cook was Phypers hall pass.
“He has a crush on her, and that’s OK,” Richards said in their confessional.
What She Noticed
During a March 2025 episode of Denise Richards and Her Wild Things, Phypers asked his wife what she noticed about him first.
“Your penis. I saw it through your f—ing jeans,” she said. “You had me thinking about your penis.”
How They Keep the Love Alive
The couple keeps things spicy by planning getaways with each other.
“There’s a lot we can do ourselves, but I can’t do everything on my own and actually it makes me a better parent having the help,” she said on The Rachel Hollis Show in 2020. “In normal circumstances, my husband and I, we take one weekend a month, we go to a hotel, where it’s just us.”
‘Hot As Balls’
When Phypers objected to Richards’ comments about the size of his manhood, his wife theorized that he “secretly” enjoyed it.
“What guy wouldn’t want their woman to talk about the size of their c—?” she said during a May 2019 RHOBH aftershow episode. “He’s hot as balls.”
A Happy Ending
Denise shocked her costars in a May 2019 episode of RHOBH when she admitted she had hunted down a masseuse who would perform a happy ending on her husband.
“Aaron had never had a happy ending, and we were on the hunt,” she said, adding, “I wanted him to have one.” “
You wanted him to get a massage with a happy ending?” Kyle Richards inquired, to which the Drop Dead Gorgeous star replied, “Yeah. He’s the only guy I’ve ever been with that had never had one. I’m like, you have to try it.”
Her Big Day
During a March 2019 episode of RHOBH, Denise sounded off about her wedding day to Phypers, noting that she didn’t care who her ex-husband, Charlie Sheen, brought to their nuptials.
“Even if he did bring a prostitute as his date, I wouldn’t care. It’s just, it is what it is,” she said. Denise shares daughters Sami and Lola with Sheen.
First Impressions
Denise revealed her first impression of her man on a March 2019 episode of RHOBH.
“I thought he was cute and I wanted to f— him,” she said. “I just wanted to have sex with him.”
Well-Endowed
“He offers a very good service, aside from his big penis. He has a very big penis,” she said during a March 2019 RHOBH episode.
The reality star later added in the confessional: “I never took a f—ing ruler to it, but he does have a big penis. I’ve seen some penises in my life, and I will say he has the biggest penis I’ve ever been with.”
Meet Cute
Richards opened up about how she met Phypers on a February 2019 episode of the RHOBH.
‘So, I met him at his center doing DNA repair, anti-aging, and that sort of thing,” she explained. “Then, one time we had sex in one of his rooms. We’ve been inseparable ever since.”